Time is a funny thing. The minutes are all 60 seconds, but emotions and circumstances have the ability to make those 60 seconds tick by as slow as molasses or faster than the blink of an eye.
We left Haiti one year ago today. It seems impossible--both because it feels like we were just in Haiti and because it feels so far away. Thankfully we'll be back on the island in a little over a month for a two week dose of Ayiti Cheri.
I suppose it's true what they say. The days are long and the years short.
Wednesday, June 4, 2014
one year
Sunday, May 4, 2014
decade
According to my Facebook friends who also attended Bethel College, I graduated ten years ago this weekend. It seems impossible to be ten years removed from college life and my dreams from that period of time. My life looks nothing like I thought it would at this point. And that's okay!!
When I left Bethel College, I thought...
I would move to Chicago and teach at an inner city high school--and maybe even start a community center. Instead I taught middle school reading in Mishawaka, English as a foreign language in Haiti, and now high school English in Goshen. Even though the location hasn't been what I thought it would be, my desire to work with students who come from low income backgrounds has been realized. And my dreams of starting a community center are still alive and well--I just picture myself running community programs in Haiti instead of the inner city.
I would be married by age 25 or 26, with multiple kids by age 30. In reality I didn't get married until a week before my 30th birthday. But, I'm not complaining. I love my husband, and I'm really, really thankful I trusted God and waited for Arold.
I would maintain my close relationships with my college friends. I was determined that I was not going to be one of those people who left college and promptly forgot about my BFFs. The truth is I was unprepared for how much work friendships take when you don't live in the same building. There are a small handful of friends from college that I regularly talk to, but I do wish I had done a better job of keeping up with my roommate and suite-mates from sophomore year.
Rest assured, some things haven't changed.
- Most days you still can't see the surface of my desk or dining room table.
- The alarm goes off multiple times before I roll out of bed in the morning.
- I would much rather stay up late with my girlfriends talking than do school work.
- Discussing grammar is still fascinating. (Seriously.)
Wednesday, April 9, 2014
dreaming
I regularly dream of Haiti. Sometimes my dreams are more like memories from when we lived there, but most of the time my dreams are set in the future.
Recently I read about a missionary in Liberia who started a soap making business with some of the people he is working with. They are able to produce 1200 bars of soap in a day and the soap makers and sellers are able to make $10 USD each day that they work, which is double what a decent job would pay there. I think it's pretty amazing. The missionary blogs at www.liberiacalls.blogspot.com. Definitely check it out!
Anyway, his post about soap got me thinking. I'm wondering if something like that could work in Haiti, so now I am in full research mode on all things soap making. I even found a place in Ft. Wayne that offers classes in soap making. So on the first Saturday of summer vacation, I am going to learn the basics of making soap. I'm hoping to learn enough to be able to try the process out when we visit Haiti this summer. (I'm counting down until we get our feet back on the island! I miss that place.)
Saturday, March 8, 2014
finally! Tastey Haitian White Rice
This week Arold made some yummy white rice, bean sauce, and chicken in sauce. It was delicious! The thing is that he always makes way more bean sauce than rice, so we have to make more rice or it goes bad. This week was no different. Last night I was looking for something Arold could pack in his lunch, and all I could find was bean sauce--which is not so appetizing on it's own. So I started a pot of rice, but the peanut gallery was not very supportive. I have been making "Haitian" rice for a few years now, but no matter how closely I follow the directions my husband gives me it is too sticky/wet or it doesn't taste right (code for it doesn't have enough salt). I don't think he was very optimistic about his lunch for today.
- Start boiling a little less than 3 cups of water
- Add some salt, then add a little more than you think is necessary
- Add 2-3 teaspoons of coconut oil (maybe more)
Optional: a handful of finely chopped leeks OR two dashes of onion powder, some garlic powder - When the water is boiling, add about 1 and 3/4 cups rice--stir so it doesn't stick to the bottom of the pan
- Bring the water back to boiling uncovered
- Once it's boiling again, stir to be sure the rice is not sticking to the bottom. Then turn down the heat to a fast simmer and cover the pot (for not so sticky rice, leave the lid slightly cracked
- Make sure the pot doesn't boil over or dry out (adjust lid to avoid both problems)
- I occasionally stir/fluff the rice while it's cooking, but I know others avoid that.
- When the rice is the desired tenderness, remove the lid to cook out all extra water.
- Enjoy with some bean sauce or other delicious dish/sauce.
Sunday, March 2, 2014
school
I don't think it's a secret that Arold and I really want to be back in Haiti doing ministry some day. Really, we'd like to be there now, but we know God has us here (in Northern Indiana) for this season of our lives. As difficult as it is to deal with the polar vortex, being assaulted daily by consumerism and greed, and the ideology of YOLO (you only live once), we know this is where we belong right now.
Monday, February 24, 2014
17 months
I can't believe Isaac is no longer a baby. He is clearly a little man at this point. The last 17 months have flown by!
Isaac loves eating, climbing, yelling, singing, and watching birds. He is very social, but doesn't like being dropped off at daycare or the church nursery, even though he gets over it pretty quickly. His favorite foods are french fries and cake or cookies--it makes no difference as long as it's sweet! He can take things off of the table and the kitchen counters. He enjoys emptying both cupboards and baskets or boxes. He is a good helper when it's time to put the groceries away and a terrible helper when it's time to fold laundry.
His vocabulary expands daily. Common words we hear around here are: up, get down, dog, Da, Mimmy, wawo (zwazo=bird in creole), book, rye (to sing Rise and Shine), ball, more, ji (for drink), tank oo, cat, nose, eye, and ungy (for hungry). He knows the signs for more, please, hungry, and maybe one other word.
Isaac LOVES music and tractors.
Saturday, February 22, 2014
renew
My one word theme of the year is renew.
I'm looking forward to a year of renewal--in faith, love, friendship, humility, and many other areas.
Psalm 51: 10 Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.
Ruth 4:15 He will renew your life and sustain you in your old age.
Romans 12:2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
Titus 3:4 ...He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit...